Our obsession with praise and blame begins soon after birth. Totally dependent on others, rapidly we learn to value praise and to fear the consequences of blame. Despite outgrowing an infant's dependence, we continue to monitor others' judgments of us-and develop what relational psychologist Terri Apter calls a "judgment meter," which constantly scans people and our interactions with them, registering a positive or negative opinion. Apter reveals...

From featured next-generation thought leader on Oprah Winfrey's Super Soul 100 and #1 New York Times bestselling author Gabrielle Bernstein comes a clear, proactive, step-by-step program to rid yourself of the tendency to judge yourself and others, and find your way back to true healing and oneness. Judgment--both being judged and judging others--is the core of our discomfort. While it's powerful, judgment isn't complicated. It's simply the separation...

Court is in session, with Judge Juliette presiding! This young girl, with a firm sense of fairness, settles all kinds of neighborhood disputes right from her own backyard, from determining a fair bedtime to locating competing lemonade stands. But now she's faced with her toughest decision yet: her parents have finally agreed to let her have a pet . . . and they're in her court, arguing whether to get a cat or dog. What will Juliette do?--